Successful Marriage Stories – How Couples Handle Issues

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Most often when couples look back at their own relationships, they tend to focus on the highlights. What many fail to recognize is that there is always good and bad times in a relationship. The real key to having a successful marriage is in being able to recognize when it is best to take a step back and enjoy the journey rather than continue trying to fix or improve things.

Interesting Marriage Stories

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One of the most interesting, successful marriage stories I have ever read was written by a woman named Hannah Montana. Here is part of what she shared with us: “I never believed I’d marry a black man. We both have brown hair and eyes. We’re not half white.” The story behind this quote is that both of them are basically of the same skin color but because of cultural differences, there were differences in their views on race, which in the end created a successful marriage.

Another of the successful marriage stories I like to read involves two people who got married before they had a child. The man fell in love with this woman before he had children and he wanted to take his family to meet his new wife. Once his family had left him, he knew he wasn’t going to be able to spend as much time with them as he wanted. The couple got married and within months the man felt he could not love his new wife as much as he did before their marriage.

Ending Of Story

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You may be curious how this story ended up being one of the most successful marriage stories. The answer is simple. He took the time to find out more about the woman. He made sure that she was who she said she was and that he found her a very compatible partner for life.

The problem that many marriages end up with is that the individuals are not happy with the outcome. They blame each other for getting into a bad marriage and they are often very bitter toward one another. They think that if only they would have just talked to each other more, planned things better or asked questions they might have prevented this from happening. Some even blame themselves because they feel that they are not giving their partner enough space or respect. They feel that if they would have let things run smooth then their marriages would have worked out much better.

Solution Of Marriage Problems

The great thing is that all of these problems can be solved by simply asking questions and talking to your spouse about them. If you do nothing else to change the way you and your partner interact then eventually both of you will start to find yourselves happier and have more happiness than you ever thought possible. Sometimes all a marriage needs is an open and honest conversation about what is really going on and a willingness to make things right. Most of the time all you need to do is ask. Of course, it would help if you asked for the help of your spouse to be open and honest with you too.

Last Words

Once you figure out which tips are most applicable to your situation, you will be well on your way to creating happy marriages. In most successful marriage stories of the couples were able to figure out how to handle the issues, make compromises and work things out together. Do not allow yourself and your partner to get along just on your own. Talk to each other and try to find common ground.

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